Cheating Signs

How to tell if the person you are dating/married to is cheating or up to no good…

1. Intimacy has been on vacation so long, you forgot what it was. (No touching, kissing, hugging, sex, etc)
2. Your mate is all of a sudden “working longer hours” all the time and conveniently becomes unreachable at certain hours when before you could reach them.
3. Your mate is all of a sudden hanging out with “friends” you’ve never met and doesn’t plan on letting you meet the “friends”.
4. Your mate constantly starts arguments with you so he/she can leave.
5. The cell phone is always turned off, on vibrate, or set to silence when you are around and your mate refuses to answer or walks off to answer.


6. Your mate is always telling you you should be “lucky” they are still with you.
7. You and your mate hardly ever spend time together anymore, and you hardly ever hang out with family or friends.
8. Your mate tells lies about the stupidest things just to shut you up.
9. Your mate always lies about their whereabouts, but you catch them in a lie.
10. Your mate avoids you at all cost and tries to make it seem like “things” are always coming up.
11. The friends act funny around you, but you don’t understand why they are acting so “different”.
12. You hardly ever talk to each other without arguing.
13. Your mate avoids all conversations about cheating and gets highly upset when you mention the topic.
14. Your friends have told you they saw your mate out doing something inappropriate.
15. Every time you try to have sex, you are brushed off and given the lame “I’m tired” excuse, or they will have sex with you but its meaningless. .
16. The person is not into you during sex, and instead has to focus else where just to orgasm (some times they just fake it---yes men can fake orgasm too).
17. The cute nicknames have turned into derogatory names.
18. When you and your mate argue, they are quick to break up with you, and all of a sudden a person is already in the picture.
19. You have constant dreams about your mate being unfaithful.
20. Your gut instinct tells you something isn’t right about your mate, but you can’t put your finger on it.


This is informational only, and does not serve as a platform to base your relationship off of. Research your situation and make educated decisions about your life. Not all things are what they seem, but doesn't mean you should look into the situation. Hope this information is useful!