Single people need to step their games up and cut out the unnecessary lies. I mean lets face it, if you are not married, you can see whomever you want. Right? So why do so many single people lie about their involvement status? If you call yourself a “real” man or a “real woman”, then why are you telling your prospective partner(s) so many lies. If the person(s) you are dealing with cannot handle the truth, then you don’t need to deal with that person(s) period! Last time I checked, HIV/AIDS was still making its way around of town like tourists. HIV doesn’t have a face, but it definitely has a name with a hell of a reputation. If you could care less and don’t mind having HIV showing up like an unwanted roommate, then continue to tell lies and play Russian Roulette with your life. The least you could do is give a person the truth, and then let them decide if they want to deal with you or not. So first be honest with yourselves, then it will make being honest with others a lot easier. 
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I will have to say that I agree. If you are "real man" then you wouldn't have to lie and just be upfront. If you want to date five and six women then be upfront with those women to let them know. They may still date you just due to being honest.
You are being fake if you feel you need to lie to different women just to please your ego. This I feel doesn't just lay with single men or women this is with married individuals also. If you are married and feel you need to step out just be upfront and honest with your mate you might be surprised by their reaction or you might end up single again. But at lest you can say you are a real man and/or real woman.
I don't feel this information has to be disclosed unless the person involved inquires. Our society has gotten away from dating...every date does not equal a committed relationship. If the relationship is becoming serious and commitment is being discussed, you have a right to know, but not until then.
I totally agree. This hits me right at home when I found myself involved in a relationship with a man who was seeing another woman and never, to this day, has told me about it. I respect a man more for his intergrity and honesty. Had he told me about her and the other women that would have gave me the option to decide if I still wanted to date him or not. The wonderful part about this story is that I am no longer in contact with this man and he is still dating the other woman, as well as other women. Let's just hope they are smart like me and don't waste their valuable time.
I think you as the woman should ask the question once your feelings are involved more than on a friend level. You can't expect him to volunteer that information.
Please don't limit this discussion to single people. There are many married people out there on the prowl bringing things home to their mates. It is not that there are lies or liars it is that some people don't respect relationships. I think that we have gotten away from respecting each other and feel that anything goes in a relationship.
Next HIV/AIDS infection is widespread not only because of the anything goes mentality but the fact that partners both single and married hide what they are doing or have done in the "street". Remember it can take up to 10 years for the virus to show up.
There are other things that are far worst than being infected with HIV.
So to be a "real" man or "real" woman (whatever that implies) you in my opinion only need to respect, and have honesty with yourself. Stop running around the street disrespecting yourself and others.
Society has gotten away from dating.. hush.. Society have gotten away from da dam truth.. Men suppose to be MEN.. BE A MAN OF UR WORD , if not u aint..%$#@.. It's not b/c we want u to be in a committed relationship,,, it's an honest relationship.. u r honest with self first ( that u don't have the quality and the means to satisfiy that ONE woman) and to that precious Woman that deal with guys like u... What about that person ( him or her) having a decision over their life. Hey man, Let me take back my life from u slave owner.. U give me that right, give me back my freedom to have a choice if I want mess with u or not.. dam, that's all a woman ask.. be a man.. colie cole
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